A disturbing video circulating online has triggered massive backlash in South Africa and beyond. In it, a woman openly claims that “there is nothing wrong with men beating their wives,” adding that her husband still “disciplines” her, even at her current age. The comment has ignited fierce public criticism and renewed calls to intensify the fight against domestic violence.
The woman’s statement echoes a dangerous mindset that normalizes abuse under the guise of tradition or marital roles. While she framed the physical violence as an act of “discipline,” gender rights activists warn that such rhetoric is deeply harmful, especially in regions already struggling with high rates of gender-based violence…...CONTINUE READING
Studies conducted in sub-Saharan Africa reveal that a troubling percentage of women still view wife-beating as justifiable in certain situations. Experts say this internalized acceptance is one of the key obstacles in eradicating domestic abuse.
Social media users were quick to condemn the remarks, calling them regressive and dangerous. Advocacy groups emphasized that no form of violence should be condoned, regardless of cultural or personal beliefs.
“Statements like these reinforce abusive dynamics and make it harder for victims to speak up,” said Thandiwe Mahlangu, a Johannesburg-based human rights lawyer. “When women themselves justify the abuse, it sends the wrong message to perpetrators and society at large.”
South Africa has one of the highest rates of intimate partner violence in the world. According to a 2022 government report, one in every three South African women has experienced some form of abuse. Despite laws such as the Domestic Violence Act and various support programs, the cultural stigma and normalization of abuse remain major challenges.
Under South African law, domestic abuse—including physical “discipline”—is a crime. Victims are encouraged to seek protection through law enforcement or domestic violence hotlines. Government agencies and NGOs continue to push awareness campaigns, but experts say more grassroots education is needed.
The recent statement by the South African woman defending domestic abuse has underscored the persistent cultural barriers in the fight against gender-based violence. While she may see her experience as “normal,” society must remain steadfast in rejecting all forms of domestic abuse.
