Men, do these 3 things and she will beg for more sex.
Of course, it might be challenging to express some wishes, especially if you are from a group of people that value quiet, pretty ladies. However, pleasure isn’t necessarily the result of inactivity. We’ve compiled a list of five things that women wish you’d do during sex………………….CONTINUE READING
Keep It Simple
Smitten can easily turn into pathetic.
It’s natural, in the heat of a new relationship, to go wild. You want to whisk her away for a romantic weekend, you want to create brilliant mix CDs for her, you want to pull her into every available photo booth for cute snapshots of the two of you nuzzling. And if you’re pretty sure she’s 100 percent into you, go for it. (Just don’t make us watch.) If, however, you sense that she’s interested, yet not quite as over the moon as you are, try doing one of those things, but not all of them.
See, you shouldn’t be afraid to try to win over a woman who’s undecided about you; if it didn’t occasionally work, the word “woo” wouldn’t exist. But if you must pursue, do so without getting all neurotic about it, and simply because you enjoy the pleasure of her company. Most women find such pure dedication difficult to ignore.
Tip: Don’t ever ask a woman you’re dating, “Where is this going?” If you have to ask, the answer is not likely to be one you’ll want to hear. And anyway, women have exclusive rights to that query, don’t ya know?
Have Great Sex
When it comes to sex, her saying “Wow” is good. “Wow, are you auditioning for the circus?” means you probably need to ease it down a notch.
Women do like to have orgasms. We don’t need to have 10 in one night. Secret, exciting techniques are great; if they’re effective, it will be evident and there will be no need for a recap, complete with anatomy lesson, of what’s just transpired. The good thing about sex is that it’s intimate. The scary thing about sex is that intimacy brings out everyone’s insecurities. Avoid the impulse to ask if it was good, and how good, and was it the best? As for trying to find out what she likes, you should be able to tell by her responses.
If you’re not sure, say something like, “Just FYI, I take requests.” Add a wink, and an icky conversation is successfully avoided.
Don’t ask, “Did you enjoy that?” You’ll sound like a waiter. A particularly annoying waiter, at that.
Keep It Real
Communication: good. Poetry: bad.
My friend received an e-mail from her new boyfriend the other day that said, “I’m watching the skies of Seattle grayen and begin to weep, and taking some time to reflect on the day.” This is a classic example of a guy trying way, way too hard. I don’t know if she’s broken up with him yet, but she’s probably thinking about it. What’s sad is that some ex-girlfriend probably told him he should share his feelings more, but then neglected to add that those feelings should be expressed in plain English and not dressed up in a stupid little outfit.
Women really want to hear absolutely everything, so talk, fax, e-mail, call us all you want. But when you do, make sure you sound genuine.
Rule of thumb: You know you’re in trouble when you start making up words.
Be a Gentleman
Think boyfriend, not butler.
Men with good manners are cute and can even be sexy. Men with excessively good manners are obsequious and often repulsive. It’s a question of degree: If it’s raining or she’s wearing a formal gown, go ahead and open her car door first; otherwise, it’s fine, after the first few dates, to just unlock it from inside. Getting her a drink from the bar is great, but don’t order dinner for her. Opening doors is nice, but not if you have to sprint ahead of her to do so. Leaving her at the coffeeshop while you run to the deli for the soy milk she likes or mailing a shower puff to her at the office because she mentioned in passing that she needs a new one (true stories) is way too attentive.
Relax. We’re not expecting too much. Show us just a degree more courtesy than you’d show the next guy, and you’ll impress.
