I’m married but drawn to my ex..
I am a 43-year old married man and have been having strong feelings for an ex-girlfriend I dated a few years before I was married. She and I were supposed to marry, but she moved to another city and we ended up losing touch with each other. I met the woman who would become my wife soon after, and we have been married for almost a decade. We have no children. I think my marriage is okay, but there is nothing special about it. We are not madly in love with each other and it often feels as if I am just sharing a home with this person rather than being married to her in a meaningful way. I don*t know if she feels the same way because we don*t really talk about our feelings, but I get the sense that she wouldn*t care if I was in her life or not. My ex-girlfriend moved back to my city a few weeks ago and reached out. We chatted a few times and I know she is single. I think she still has feelings for me. What should I do?
Please drop your advise!
