My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn
My mum has people staying with her – my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.
Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain……………………..CONTINUE READING
Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum’s and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that’s not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that’s still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.
The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn’t stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.
The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.
Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn’t confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.
Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she’s quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She’s barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.
My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? – if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on……………………CONTINUE READING
